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Body, Soul, & Spirit: Intimacy in Marriage, Part 3 (audio)

Intimacy is far more than simply the physical or the sensual.  Intimacy in marriage is a beautiful and intricate dance between body, soul, and spirit.

Notes & Discussion Questions

Roadblock removal & Bridge Repair

Bridge Repair in the Soul
Bridge Repair in the Body
  1. What bridges have you found to be either washed out or damaged? How has that shown up in your relationship?
  2. What heart/attitude adjustments do you need to make?
  3. What steps can you be taking together to rebuild those bridges?
  4. How can we be praying for one another in our marriage?

Welcome to the Jungle: Parenting, temptation, and the digital jungle

Fathers must be diligent and intentional about protecting their sons and daughters and preparing them to walk through the “jungle” of digital technology.



Speaking this weekend at Reston Bible Church – 10/14

9 and 10:45 AM – 45650 Oakbrook Court, Dulles, VA 20166

Colossians 3 – New life, New authority, New identity, New purpose, New Love

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In the Eye of the Storm

A talk given at HomeFront, a couples ministry of Reston Bible Church

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  1. What was one thing you found particularly challenging, insightful, thought provoking, or helpful from today’s talk?
  2. Why do I entertain escapist ideas or at times want to run from other’s in need?
  3. What are some storms going on around you, now or in the past, that you’ve wished you could hide from?
  4. How have you seen Christ use your times in the “eye” to help others?

Who are you following?

A message given to the youth at Reston Bible Church – March 25, 2018

Questions for Reflection:

1. What counterfeit adventures or solutions to life’s struggles have you been following? How is that working out for you?

2. What is holding you back from following Jesus?  

Meeting of the Waters – Part 3

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Meeting of the Waters – Parts 1 & 2

A series on the journey to marriage oneness, given at Reston Bible Church’s HomeFront couples fellowship.  March 2018





Part 1

Part 2

Upcoming Marriage Booster event

Join me this Friday, February 2, at Reston Bible Church where I’ll be moderating a panel discussion on cultivating a safe harbor for communication in yourself, your marriage, and your home.

Registration is free online.

Marriage Booster: Safe Harbor from Reston Bible Church on Vimeo.



Shabbat – God’s Gift of Rest

A talk given to Parent’s and Jr. High Students at Reston Bible Church on December 6, 2017

Gift of Rest


Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. – Mark 12:30

When we talked about loving God with our heart we referenced our personality and passions. That’s pretty deep. When we talk about loving God with our soul, that’s deeper still because our soul is the innermost part of who we are. It is used as a synonym for life, our life, our essence. It’s the part God created to last for eternity. Sadly when sin entered the world it separated our soul, our life, from God’s presence. We are eternally dissatisfied until our soul finds rest in Him. Why? Because before we accepted Christ our soul was enslaved to sin. We were longing for Him, for a perfect leader in this Quest called life. After we know Jesus our souls can rest because we have “returned to the shepherd and guardian of our souls” (1 Peter 2:25).

King David was Israel’s Poet King. He often spoke about His soul, “my soul is greatly dismayed…I will lift up my soul…my soul may sing praise…my soul will rejoice…” King David knew there was more to him than his mind and body. My soul is my immaterial essence, my life breath. It is that part of me that can be separated from Him if I choose to put myself on the throne of my life. As a Christian I desire a makeover that will reform my soul so that I can love and put God at the center of everything in my life. God has promised this makeover in Romans 8:29. “For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the likeness of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers.” Everyday God is reshaping me to resemble Jesus and that includes my soul.

Psalm 63:1-5
Matthew 10:28
Ezekiel 18:4
Luke 16:19-31
Mark 8:36
Matthew 16:26
3 John 1:2

(Excerpt from Extreme Makeover: Spiritual Edition, a curriculum by Michael J. Meyers)